I devote myself to every love, but every time I find that my boyfriend doesn't love me so much. Either he doesn't treat me in the way I need, or he can't forget his feelings for his predecessor. When the beautiful and pure feelings I pursue no longer exist, I will torture myself, repeatedly look for evidence to confirm my guess, repeatedly check my boyfriend's mobile phone, and intend to prove my point of view, Prove that he doesn't love me. In fact, he can't deceive himself or others. When he knows that the other party doesn't love him, he can't continue to invest and fight for him. He hopes to gradually establish the feelings he expects, choose to be self closed, don't communicate, don't go out, and fight with himself.
Condition Analysis:
Hello, according to what you said, the situation itself is affected by the environment and practical reasons. The current emotions need to be jointly cultivated on the basis of acquaintance. People with similar interests and mutual trust. If there is excessive sensitivity and immature love views that do not rule out idealization, it is easy to lead to a large gap between reality and low sense of self-worth and wishful thinking
Guidance:
Lantian has affected the normal view of mate selection and does not rule out that some negative emotions are serious. It is necessary to make more positive energy groups to enhance their self-confidence. At the same time, when there are specific facts, we should lighten our emotions as much as possible and request special psychological counseling when necessary
Condition Analysis:
Hello, look at your description. You devote yourself to every love, but you feel that you belong to the kind of person with low self-esteem, and you ask your boyfriend to treat you in the way you need. Do you think it's possible? And will repeatedly check each other's mobile phone to prove that he doesn't love you
Guidance:
To tell the truth, in your own family, you ask your parents or your brothers and sisters to treat you exactly according to your ideas. Do you think it's possible? If you want to understand this problem, you won't ask others to do it completely according to your ideas. People exist independently. A person is not attached to anyone. I hope you can figure it out. In addition, you should systematically do psychological counseling for a period of time
Condition Analysis:
As you said, after this happens, we should face and deal with some things correctly, so that we can solve some confused things
Guidance:
You said that some problems occurred in the process of contact and love. You don't have this sense of security because of your distrust of your boyfriend. Since you can experience several feelings, everyone may also have several such feelings. We should take the current feelings seriously and trust each other. Your behavior measures will accelerate the process of separation between you, Accelerate the further establishment of distrust between you, and finally separate
