and girlfriend together soon not around a moment of conflict and other people had sex afterwards there is no contact without any emotion after calm down only to find that they did things contrary to their own moral values so much so that they can not believe now very guilty guilt is very strong I like my girlfriend girlfriend also like me very much I want to be with her well I know that I can not confess to her so that will hurt her again cause a lifetimeI have to bear the harm I usually have any way to turn their attention a little bit every day live in the emotions feel worse than death
As the saying goes, one mistake contributes to a thousand hatreds.This matter really should not be.Did not control his impulses well, when his own animal attributes prevailed, and his primitive instincts were equal to me.The ego and superego did not control the instincts of the ego.
But this thing has already happened, a torment of the ego.It is also not able to change the possibility of the truth.Nor can you confess to your girlfriend, if you do it will cause him a lot of harm.The mistakes of their own only their own bear.This thing has become a fact can not be changed, to reduce this damage to a minimum, that is, the first future does not happen similar things.Secondly, run your own family well, love your wife and children well.The past cannot be changed, only accept yourself, accept your own shortcomings, accept the scars on your body.It is enough that no new scars will occur.And do not call this scar, and then cause secondary damage.
I can understand this idea and state of yours, but if it is said that your girlfriend you value and love very much, and he does not know that you have occurred this behavior, then it is advisable to keep it a secret and to be clean and loyal to your current spouse in the future.
Hello, according to your description of their current situation, their girlfriend is not around when the impulse and others had sex, afterwards regret and blame, guilt can not relax themselves, should be brave to confide in out.
It is recommended that you should communicate with your friends more often, tell them about the repression, avoiding long periods of time to repress their own psychological problems, hoping that friends can understand themselves, forgive themselves, accompany themselves, should have self-confidence and courage, brave to face the.